Hipanga 3! Whakapai Raita Tane ma te Whakaora Karere Kuputuhi

Whakahoutia i te Hune 16, 2020 na Ian McEwan


Nga Raru Korero

Ka ngata te whakaponokore. Kaore he mea i tino mamae ake i te tinihangatia e te tangata e arohaina ana e koe.

Engari, ka rere ke nga ahuatanga.

Ki nga panui (hei tauira, WhatsApp, Messenger, Raarangi, Viber, me era atu), nga hononga ipurangi, me nga paparanga paparanga, he maama ake ki te tinihanga ki tetahi kaipoipo i nga wa o nga tau kua hipa.Whakapai Raita Tane ma te Whakaora Karere Kuputuhi

Anei tetahi keehi mo te rapu awhina i Quora:

“I must say, I busted my lover by WhatsApp cheating on me with someone he met at work. He and I had been together almost 3years. Now, I do know to kick him to the curb. However, my heart is still open to him… I am a few years older than him, but I had expected for me and him to grow together in the relationship we had. .Now that I am hurt, confused, angry, not knowing what to do with myself, I’m not looking for someone else new because I trusted him and trust is really hard to give to someone new… I’m open to anyone’s opinion. ; (“

Ae ra, ehara i te keehi takitahi.

Ana i etahi korero ka hiahia pea koe ki te mohio mo te moepuku.

    • Atu i te 60 orau Tuhinga o mua i te mahi. (Rauemi: Haatumoana ki te Whanau). A 36 orau o nga tangata e whakaae ana he hononga i runga i te haerenga pakihi.
    • 20% -25% of people in the United States have ever cheated while married. And an Indiana University study shows that men and women cheat i te reiti kotahi. Engari the tau te whakaponokore i roto i nga wahine i piki ake te 40% i nga tau 5 tau.
    • Ko te whakaipoipo aronganui he mea noa ake i te wa o te tinana. E ai ki nga rangahau mai i te American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy, e pa ana ki 45 orau Tuhinga o mua 35 orau o nga wahine i paahitia e nga wahine aronganui 20 orau E whakaae ana te taangata ki te taatai ​​tinana.
    • 54 orau Tuhinga o mua 70 orau o nga Wahine kaore i te mohio ki nga mahi a o raatau hoaaikaha.
    • Te ōrau o te tāne / wahine e whakaae ana ki te whakaponokore ki te teina-tuakana, teina ranei is 17 orau me te ōrau me te kupenga kupenga is 18 orau.
    • He maha atu nga korero mo te whakaponokore.

Ka hiahia te hunga aroha ki te aroha, engari i etahi wa ka tino tawhiti rawa atu. Aue!

Te ti'aturi nei au ka waimarie koe i te kore e kite i enei raru whakaponokore, engari i etahi wa, ko te mea anake ka pa mai ki a koe ka mohio koe ki nga tau uaua makariri.

I runga i tetahi tohu, me rite koe ki te mohio ki nga mahi, me te aha.

“Now, there are three ways that I think infidelity hurts differently today. We have a romantic ideal in which we turn to one person to fulfill an endless list of needs: to be my greatest lover, my best friend, the best parent, my trusted confidant, my emotional companion, my intellectual equal. And I am it: I’m chosen, I’m unique, I’m indispensable, I’m irreplaceable, I’m the one. And infidelity tells me I’m not. It is the ultimate betrayal. Infidelity shatters the grand ambition of love. But if throughout history, infidelity has always been painful, today it is often traumatic, because it threatens our sense of self.”— By KAUPAPA TAHEI

 

Kitemea. Me pehea te whai ki enei shits? Me pehea te hopu i te Raima Tinihanga?

Anei tenei korero mo Nancy, kua marenatia, tokorua tamariki.

I tetahi ra ka hoki mai tana tane a Eric i tana haerenga umanga, a ko Nancy e takaro ana i tana iPhone 8 hou i te wa e hikoi ana a Eric i tana kitenga i tetahi karere WhatsApp e puta mai ana i runga i te mata:Me mate ahau ki a koe…” She frowned. And then another message: ” He iti rawa taku ahuatanga ka takai koe ki au ... ka nui rawa atu taku koa” Something bad happened, Nancy realized and felt everything in her whole life collapse. Instead of freaking out, she put down the iPhone and pretended to sleep after taking deep breaths for a few minutes. It was a long night.

Kei te tinihanga ia? Afea i puta ai? E tehea tau ka mau tonu? Ko wai ia? Te tangata kei te mahi? Ranei he tu tu po noa? He mahinga whakaipoipo, he utunga i utua, he korerorero, he ngote me te mutunga harikoa? He mea tino ataahua a ia? Ranei pea ko te mea iti ake ...

Na ka tino riri ia.

I hiahia a Nancy ki te mohio ki nga korero katoa i mua i tana whakapae ki tana tane whakaponokore.

Ka whakatauhia e ia te tirotiro ano i te waea a Eric i te ra e whai ake nei, engari kua kitea e ia kua mukua nga raau karanga me nga karere katoa i roto i nga ra e rima kua hipa. Whakapau.

Ka aha e koe ki te mea ko Nancy?

 

Anei he aha me mahi koe ki te hopu i te Cheater

Kohikohia nga taunakitanga

Whakaarohia he meneti mo te wa e ngana ai te hoa tinihangakore ki te whakakahore i o whakapae (penei: Ehara i te ahua, he pohehe, me era atu), kaore koe e kohi i nga taunakitanga e hiahia ana koe ki te whakahē i ana korero.

Ko nga taangata e tinihanga ana ki o ratou hoa aroha te mana ki te mohio ki nga mea kei te tupu. Ma te iti rawa, ka awhina i te kaha ki te whakapakari i te raru me te whakakore i te feaa mai i to hinengaro.

Na, kei konei etahi tohutohu awhina mo to tohutoro.

 

Tohu 1. Hunt mo nga tohu o te oranga o ia ra

I te mea ko te hoa tinihangakore ka huri pea ki te huri i ana korero, ki te patai ranei ki to mahara, na reira ko te tuhi hautaka me te kohi pire ko nga huarahi ngawari me te whai hua hei pupuri i te kaute o nga mea katoa i roto i to koiora.

Tuhia nga hautaka hei tirotiro maatau i nga korero katoa o nga mahi kua whakauruhia mai e to hoa, penei i te wa me hea e haere ana koe? Kei te whai waahi atu etahi atu? He aha nga tohenga i hoatu? etc.

Ka kohia nga pire katoa, nga huringa me te tangohanga ATM, nga tauākī kāri nama, me era atu mai i to hoa rangatira ka whakarite i nga korero me te tuhi ki o tuhinga.

 

Tohu 2. Whakanuia cheater ma te maere

Whakamaahia te haerenga ohorere ki te mahi, me te hoki mai ki te kainga i nga waa kaore i te tumanako, ka mahi ranei i nga panui mo te mahi i te mutunga o nga mahi, engari ka hoki mai ki te kaainga wawe, etc.

 

Tohu 3. Torotoro

Ko etahi o koutou kei te utu i tetahi kaitirotiro tūmataiti, te whakamahi ranei i nga mahi tutei hei tirotiro i te waea pūkoro a to hoa.

Tuhinga mSpy, ko te taputapu tirotiro waea nui e whakamahia ana e te tangata aroturuki i nga mahi a tetahi ki runga i te iPhone / Android te papa ranei, rite waea taumai WhatsApp karere, Facebook, SMS, GPS, me etahi atu i roto i te wā-tūturu.
EN Katoa i roto i te taputapu taputapu korero korerorero

Tuhipoka: Ka tika ana korero, ka mahi nga tohutohu tohutohu katoa kua whakahuahia. Engari. I te mea kua kite o o hoa rangatira he mohio koe kua mawhiti mai i a raatau maamaa, ka pai ake te uaua ka kitea.

A he maha nga ra hei marama ki te kohikohi i nga korero katoa e hiahia ana koe.

 

Tohu 4. He iti ake te wa kua whiria: Whakaora kua mukua nga tuhinga kuputuhi mai i te pūkoro tinihangahia a te Tinihanga

Inaianei, he taapiri katoa ki o maatau waea i te ata katoa o te ra. Ko nga raraunga pūkoro, ina koa nga karere kuputuhi kei roto, nga mea ngaro katoa kei a koe.

Mena kua kite koe i tenei waahanga " Ko te Katoa o to Huarahi"I te Mirror Pango, e kore koe e miharo na o koutou hoa tinihanga he muru i nga mea kua whakaarohia hei taunakitanga mo o raatau maamaa (hei tauira, karere, karanga raakau, hoapono, me etahi atu), i te wa e mohio ana ratou ki tetahi mea.

Nga Whakaahuamata mai i te Panui Black Mirror 3 Ko te Whakaaetanga Katoa o koe

(Nga Whakaahuamata mai i te Kaata Mirror 3: Te Whakaaetanga Katoa o Koe, e whakaoti ana me te whakaari e raru ana mo te wahine tinihanga.)

Heoi, ka taea e koe te whakakore i tena.

Ko te whakaora raraunga mai i te iPhone me te papa pūkoro he ngawari rawa atu i enei waa mena ka tangihia e koe nga taputapu tika.

Ka taea e koe te kite i te maha o nga mahi whakaora raraunga ma te haere i te "whakaora raraunga iPhone", "te whakaora raraunga iOS" me te "whakaora raraunga Android".

He aha ano, ki te kore koe e nui te waa ki te whakamatau i enei kaupapa katoa (na te mea kaore katoa i te katoa he pono), i konei e rua nga waahanga kua whakaritea ma te mahi whakaora raraunga.

Kōwhiria tetahi o te tino whakaora raraunga whakaora. Hei tauira, Fonelab mo te iOS Or Fonelab mo te Android te tikanga e kiia ana ko te tino whaihua me te nuinga o te whakahoki mai o nga raraunga iPhone / phi i te maakete.

 

Anei nga kaupae 3 maau e whakahoki ai i nga karere kuputuhi / waea rango mai i to waea tupono tinihanga.

Hipanga 1. Honoia te pūkoro o o hoa me te rorohiko.

Whakarewa iOS Whakaora Raraunga/ Whakaora Raraunga Android. Tūhono te Pūrere iOS / Android o to hoa faaipoipo ki te rorohiko me te taura USB. Paatohia te "Whakaora Raraunga". Ka hiahiatia he kupuhipa.

Tangohia te Whakaora Raraunga iPhone Ma te Tikiake Mac Tikiake
Tikina te Whakamatau Kore ma te I-imeera mo te Tikiake i muri mai i te Rorohiko
Tikiake Whakaora Raraunga Android Ma te Tikiake Mac Tikiake
Tikina te Whakamatau Kore ma te I-imeera mo te Tikiake i muri mai i te Rorohiko

Hipanga 2. Tuhia te pūkoro o o hoa ki te whakaora raraunga kua mukua ki runga.

Click the “Start Scan” to let the program scan the device. The process will last seconds to a few minutes, depending on the amount of data on the device. Don’t unplug the phone during the scanning.

Hipanga 3. Arokite i nga raraunga kua karapa me te whakaatu ki nga tae a te cheater.

The scanned data generated by the program includes deleted and existing data, such as messages, photos & videos, contacts, call history, WhatsApp, Messenger, Viber, Kik, etc. Just one click on the “Recover” button. You can simply find the messages, and photos exchanged and desire expressed with the operation interface.

Hokona iPhone Raraunga Whakaora Inaianei!

Whakaora Karere iPhone Kua Mukua, Rangihia Waea, Hoapapa, WhatsApp, etc.

Hokona mo Win Hokona mo te Mac

Hokona te Whakaora Raraunga Android Inaianei!

Tiaki Whakaora Karere Android Kua Tangohia, Rangitaki Piihia, Hoapapa, me etahi atu

Hokona mo Win Hokona mo te Mac

 

I tenei wa, kua maarama etahi whakamaarama, ko te nuinga, ko nga tuhinga me te tau waea o te kaihainga kaainga kaainga. Ano he wa kei te mohio ko wai ia / kei te ora tonu ia.

 

Rapu Whakamuri

Na nga korero ka riro mai i a koe ki te whakaora i nga raraunga kua mukua o to rorohiko tinihanga, a, me te aroturuki ranei ki te mSpy, ka taea e koe te kimi i te tangata e tinihangatia ana e to hoa rangatira.

3 Freeways to reverse lookup me te nama waea

#1 Google te reira.

Ko Google te miihini rapu pai rawa atu puta noa i te ao. He kaha te keri i nga mea mai i nga pito pouri o te ipurangi. Whakamahia te nama waea, i etahi wa ka taea e koe te whiu i tetahi hit tika. Tino kia pupuhi.

#2 Facebook rapu.

Na te huringa whatunga hapori mo nga ahuatanga katoa o te ao tuuturu, ko Facebook te huarahi pai ki te tirotiro e pa ana ki te nama waea. Whakauruhia noa te nama waea ki te pouaka rapu i te tihi o to paparangi whaarangi Facebook. Mena he tangata taapiri o te tangata e haangai ana ki ta raatau haangai Facebook, ka puta to ratau ingoa ko te hua rapu o runga, ahakoa katoa o o ratau putunga tūmataiti me te kore koe he hoa.

#3 Huringa rapu whakamuri koreutu.

He ruarua paetukutuku tirotiro waea koreutu, penei iwifinders.com, koikoi.com, a spydialer.com, aha atu. Te mahi i te rapu waea whakamuri me enei paetukutuku, ka kitea pea e koe te wahitau, te ingoa, te taatai ​​whenua, te imeera ranei.

Kimihia tetahi, ki whea

I tenei wa, kua rukuhia e koe te huna huna i mahia e to hoa. Mahalo kei te hiahia koe ki etahi wa kia ata noho, me te whakaaro me pehea te pa ki tenei mahi whakamataku.

 

Te korero me te whakamahere i te ohorere

 

Me korero ki to hoa.

Kaore he tika, engari koinei anake te huarahi ki te wetewete i nga mamae o te mamae ma te korero mo to hoa aroha.

Te mohio ki a ia e whai whakaaro ana ia, he aha hoki te whiriwhiri i a raatau. Tēnā pea kei te tūmanako koe he whakangao, he whawhai ranei, engari me tu tonu koe me te manawanui. Ko nga mea katoa i whiwhi koe ko tetahi akoranga koiora, he utu mo to mahi pakari hinengaro.

Te Haape'ape'ai Ta'u / Ia?

Well, don’t let your friends, family, and the results you search on Google decide for you. Follow your heart and make your own decision.

Kaua e aro ki nga korero o mua. Whakapono mai ki a au, kaore e tika kia whakahuatia.

Te whakamahere i nga kino.

whakarere. Mena ka tae korua ki tenei wa, kaore, ko te tikanga kia mohio koe ki te tiaki ia koe me to whakamana te whakaponokore i roto i te kooti mo te whakarere.

Te utu. Yes. You may be filled with so much hate and anger. And hatred breeds revenge. But you should use this inner power wisely. You should always keep in mind that the best revenge is to improve yourself.

 

Hei Tuhi

He kino te tinihangatia e to aroha. Engari ko te peka noho kore ko te whiringa whakaaro. Hei whakamatau i tana kohungahunga, ka taea e koe te whai i nga mahi whakapae katoa o to hoa tinihanga ma te pupuri i tetahi hautaka, ma te whakamahi i nga tuhinga tutei hei aroturuki i tana waea waea, ki te whakaora ranei i nga korero kua mukua mai i tona ringareti. Huihui, hono atu ki to hoa cheater me whakamahere i te kino rawa atu. Ka taea e koe te pa atu.

Te mutunga, kei konei te ataata Ted e tika ana mo to ahua o to hinengaro e kii ana ki a koe.

Rethinking infidelity … a talk for anyone who has ever loved | Esther Perel

Ko taku tumanako i pai koe ki te panui i tenei pou.

 

*He maha atu nga korero mo te whakaponokore.Tuhinga o mua

3 Comments

  1. Lulu ta:

    Ki taku whakaaro kua tinihangatia taku wahine. Kei te hiahia au ki te tiki i tana raau karanga mai i taku mahara e kiia ana taua tangata.

    • Ian McEwan ta:

      ki lulu:

      Ki taku whakapono ko te nui ake o te whakawhitiwhiti korero i roto i te marena ka whakaoti i te nuinga o te raru.
      However. If it doesn’t work out , you should try the method i mention in this post.
      Kōwhiria tetahi o te whakaora raraunga raraunga mo te rorohiko, te taputapu phi ranei, penei i a Dr.fone.

      Paatohia mo te tango koreutu → https://ios-data-recovery.com/download/drfone_recover.exe

      Ko te mahi a te 3 takahanga ngawari: uru ki roto, ka matawai me te arokite ka whiwhi koe i nga mea e hiahia ana koe mai i te pūkoro.
      Me mihi ki to aro. He Waimarie Pai!

  2. Rebecca ta:

    kotahi te cheater he kaihauturu 🙁